Not everyday we thank our life or our loved ones for being there. On this thanksgiving, i tell you 3 things to be grateful about.
- TOGETHERNESS – You should be grateful for being together, for being able to belong somewhere or to someone, for being able to depend on someone special. You know when things will go wrong, he/she will be there holding your hand. And you know when you are blabbering about something, someone is sitting there and listening or pretending to be listening. You can go home and cuddle up to him/her. You are no more eating alone, sleeping alone, living alone, crying alone or sitting at the pub alone. You belong to someone even when they are not right by your side. That’s the thing we should be thankful about.
- EXPECTATIONS – You are one of those people who have the full right to expect something from someone because he/she is married to you. Be it a surprise gift on anniversary or a tshirt that you loved at the mall, be it that beautiful vase or a hug after a difficult day at work. You can expect, you have someone to fulfill those or even if they are not met, you give them another chance or at the end, tell them. You can expect someone to melt down when you show them that puppy face. You are no more phone calls away sending those selfies. You can finally tell all the gross things you did as a kid and still have it respected and accepted!
- PLANNING – You can plan, anything. A jog, An evening, a weekend, a spontaneous short country side holiday, a long vacation, kids, retirement, world tour or a bungee jumping! You can plan without worrying about other people if they ll go or not, you two are enough. You can plan that stupid prank on someone because they cannot remain mad at you.
Be thankful to the life you have with this beautiful husband/wife present in it!
Happy Thanksgiving everybody!